To put it plain and simple, my mother is acting like a whore. Ever since my dad died, she's been out almost every night of the week, bringing guys home, and sometimes not even coming home, or checking in. I had actually confronted her about this and she told me that ever since dad died and my sisters and I have all moved out on our own that she was so lonely, but now she's happy and she's enjoying herself and that I should be happy for her. My sister on the other hand thinks it's great that my mom was about to bounce back after only a few years and get back out there, rather than moping around, waiting to die like some older women do when their partners die. What do you think?
-BC, TX
BC,
Well I'm with your sister. Regardless of the light you see her in, she is still a human and humans have sexual needs. You can't expect her to sit around waiting to die just because YOU don't approve. As a person, she has needs, regardless of how old she is. Hell, even if she's sleeping around, she has to get hers and you can't hold it against her. And I hope she slapped the shit out of you if you've called a whore. She's a lucky old woman who hasn't loss her sex drive and was able to bounce back after your dad passed away. You'll see in due time when you're an old widower with a bottle of Viagra and no where to go.
Well I'm with your sister. Regardless of the light you see her in, she is still a human and humans have sexual needs. You can't expect her to sit around waiting to die just because YOU don't approve. As a person, she has needs, regardless of how old she is. Hell, even if she's sleeping around, she has to get hers and you can't hold it against her. And I hope she slapped the shit out of you if you've called a whore. She's a lucky old woman who hasn't loss her sex drive and was able to bounce back after your dad passed away. You'll see in due time when you're an old widower with a bottle of Viagra and no where to go.
- Auntie J