Porn: The other woman

Aunties...
I have a problem. I am a young woman in my very early 20's. Every now and then, I will watch a bit of internet porn. It turns me on. I like it. It's hot. But my boyfriend watches a TON of porn. He can not own an internet capable device without downloading at least a movie or two on it. It wouldn't bother me if he'd watch it and then ravage me as soon as I walked through the door, but it's quite the opposite. We have sex MAYBE once a week, if I'm lucky. And when we do, it's usually quick and neither one of us seem to really enjoy it. I think my breaking point was when I asked for sex, he turned me down, then 20 minutes later, I walked into the den and he was watching porn. Is it me? How can I approach this situation?
- Kelcy, WA

Kelcy,
When you catch your boyfriend watching porn, does he masturbate while he watches? Give him a taste of his own medicine and let him catch you with your toys a few times then after he sees you recieve mass amounts of pleasure, tell him you're to tired for sex ;). But seriously, maybe try watching together, making that your foreplay.
- Auntie J and Auntie Reggie