Monday, December 22, 2008

Double Trouble

Dear Aunt Jamie and Aunt Reggie:
My boyfriend of 4 years and I have always had a pretty decent sex life. One night before getting down to business, I asked him what his ultimate fantasy was. He told that he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. I wasn't sure how to react, but I soon relented and set it up with my boyfriend's bestfriend, "Kevin",who happens to be our roommate. After the threesome, I began to feel an attraction towards Kevin, even more so than to my boyfriend. I know he feels the same way, and it's actually beginning to affect their friendship. I love my boyfriend, but I really want to explore these feelings with Kevin. What should I do?
-L, Detriot, MI

Dear L
I've said this time and time again. There is no room in a real relationship for another person. Once you get that taste of what it's like to be with someone else, you won't want to stop. In his mind, this was a one time deal. He's lived his fantasy. The problem with picking someone close to you is that if feelings for SOMEONE develop, then exisiting relationships get affected. The honest truth is that if you have feelings for someone else, be they emotional entanglements, or simple carnal desire, you're not being honest with yourself about your feelings towards your boyfriend. You want to have your cake and eat it too, and in the real world, it doesn't work that way. Sit him down, tell him about your feelings. However he reacts, what you REALLY want, will become clear. The fact that your freaky ass boyfriend was willing to even take that leap and try something new is a good sign of character. I'd hold on to him. A sweet, freaky man is hard to find! Keep that in mind on your second date at Del Taco with boring ass Kevin!
- Auntie J

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